This fixes an issue where the theme-provided border-width prevents
dialog contents from lining up properly with the headerbar. To make
this work in message dialogs, we have to explicitly set the border-
width of the action area to 0.
We need to disconnect the frame clock when we unrealize (at which
point the old clock is still alive) not in destroy(). Since there
is no common unrealize for containers, trigger this from GtkWidget.
Instead of using 1 global queue for both resizes and style validation,
use 2 queues. This makes the code a lot simpler and fixes a bug where we
could accidentally stop restylying for very delayed restyles.
