The resource compiler in the Windows 11 SDK does not allow one to include
winuser.h directly in resource scripts (.rc) with a rather cryptic error
message, so fix generating the .rc file to embed the UAC manifest by including
windows.h with WIN32_LEAN_AND_MEAN instead.
As the program executable name has 'update' in its filename,
gtk-update-icon-cache.exe is considered to be an installer program on 32-bit
Windows [1], which will cause the program to fail to run unless it is running
with elevated privileges (i.e. UAC).
Avoid this situation by embedding a manifest file into the final executable
that tells Windows that this is not a program that requires elevation.
Also make the autotools build files dist the new script and use the new script
to generate the manifest and rc files, instead of hardcoding the generating
bits in gtk/Makefile.am
Fixes issue #3632.
[1]: https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/previous-versions/windows/it-pro/windows-vista/cc709628(v=ws.10)?redirectedfrom=MSDN,
under section "Installer Detection Technology"
