Cocoa integration - avoid dangling menuitem pointer

Since QCocoaMenu can live longer than its m_attachedItem pointer,
this pointer is becoming invalid after QCocoaMenuItem deleted
(and its 'm_native' was released).

Task-number: QTBUG-53251
Change-Id: I6d97b75b2c09e2443cd21415c5db94206d5d89ce
Reviewed-by: Frederik Gladhorn <frederik.gladhorn@theqtcompany.com>
Reviewed-by: Gabriel de Dietrich <gabriel.dedietrich@qt.io>

src/plugins/platforms/cocoa/qcocoamenuitem.mm

@@ -110,6 +110,8 @@ QCocoaMenuItem::~QCocoaMenuItem()
     if (m_merged) {
         [m_native setHidden:YES];
     } else {
+        if (m_menu && m_menu->attachedItem() == m_native)
+            m_menu->setAttachedItem(nil);
         [m_native release];
     }